This year – well next year tomorrow, really – I’m not making ‘New Year’s Resolutions’. Why? Because, we’re in the midst of a pandemic which will. Not. Go. Away.
It’s really hard to keep doing something every day or every week for a whole year when no one knows what we’ll even be able or legally allowed to do. “I’m going to start the gym” ; “I want to see France” ; “I’m going to make more of an effort to go out more or meet up with old friends” – well, coronavirus and the government have other plans, babe.
Even though I feel like making it to 2021 should be enough after the year we’ve just had, there are some things that I do want to do or improve this year. So, instead of making declarations we all know most likely won’t happen, I’ve made a wee list of things I’d just quite like to get done. When I do them, how often I do them and to be honest, if I do ‘em doesn’t really matter. Life gets in the way sometimes, and that’s grand.
So, here are my New Year “Goals”.
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1. Do Veganuary
I’m dairy-free and do four vegan days a week anyway but this year I’m committing to a full month of being vegan. I’ve followed Veganuary on Instagram, downloaded their recipe book and meal plans and screenshotted ones I wanna try, and I’ve told my family (who I live with) that I won’t be having any of their dinners next month so count me out. So, I’m pretty confident that I’ll do it. Plus, apparently I could save up to 900 square metres of rain forest by doing it? Pass me the chickpeas.
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2. Make Facial Toner
Do you ever do something, and then add it to your to-do list purely so you can tick it off?
Well, my toner’s highkey running out so I’m gonna need more in like four days and I found a homemade recipe I want to try out. So, making toner is now one of my goals. It might seem small but this ‘small’ activity is helping reduce plastic waste, carbon emissions, is more sustainable, and is one less way that I’m contributing to capitalism and consumerism.
See? It’s so much more than “just a toner”.
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3. Stop ‘Keeping things Good’
This is probably my worst habit. I get nice “smellies” as my granny would say (shower stuff or perfumes) and I’m like, “I don’t want to waste these, I’ll save ‘em for special occasions”. I never saw the point using fancy stuff to just sit on my couch working from home, so used them if I was going out or doing something instead.
But, considering I’ve spent the past nine months not being able to go out or do anything, I just thought, “to hell with it”. Because, the thing is, every day is a special occasion. It doesn’t matter if you stay home all day or don’t see anyone but the postperson. Why not make yourself feel, smell or look good?
So, my “goal” is to stop keeping my nice things good; to stop saving them for ‘special occasions’. If my big adventure is going to Lidl, then maybe I WILL wear my Jimmy Choo perfume. Why not? If that’s the height of excitement in my life, then I probably do need something, anything to make me feel good and happy.
Wear your favourite outfit. Use your fancy perfume, shower stuff or makeup. Wear your matching underwear. Crack open that wine you’ve been saving. You don’t need a special occasion to treat yourself.
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4. Blog Regularly
I’m not going to say “write one a week”, even though that’s what I’d like to do, because the chances are that that won’t happen. Sometimes, I don’t have the time, inspiration or I’m just not feeling it. Maybe, MAYBE I’ll be on holidays (see, I’m still an optimist). So, blogging regularly is my goal. It’s a vague and subjective word that I can’t really be challenged on. One a week? Regular. One a fortnight? Regular. One a month? You guessed it, r e g u l a r.
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5. Be more Positive, Kind and Giving
There’s times when I’m like, “Hmm, I wish I hadn’t have said that” or “I shouldn’t have cared so much about that”; there’s times when I wish I was more patient, more positive, more understanding and more willing to just give things a go.
I think everyone has things about themselves that they think they could or want to improve on. So, I want to do that. I’m not saying I’m going to set out to be the most patient, upbeat or generous person to ever exist. Everyone has their own tendencies, traits and nature, and you can’t completely transform that. But, I do think you can work on it.
So, that’s what I want to. I want to work on it. Whether I achieve it, or how much I achieve it by, isn’t my main concern. My main concern is being more aware and mindful of how I act or behave, and try to do them in a better way.
Vague and subjective – nice.
6. Live More Sustainably
I feel ~pretty~ passionately about looking after the environment and not destroying the planet and future of every living thing on earth – how niche! I already buy, use and do a good few things which are more sustainable or environmentally-friendly alternatives. But, I can do more. And I want to.
I know not everyone actually cares about the planet, and it really melts my head (and the ice caps). But, I guess that’s all the more reason for me to do more. So, I want to keep buying, using and doing the more sustainable options and I want to buy, use and do more of ‘em.
I know not everything is a “sustainable” option for me, in that I wouldn’t be able to financially afford to keep buying or doing them. But, I want to do what I can. I can’t pay £12 for a bottle of mouthwash. But I can pay an extra £1 for loose apples. So, that’s what I want to do.
Yeah, it will cost me more. But, like my granda always said, “You can’t take it with you; there’s no point being the richest one in the graveyard”. And sure, if the life of the planet and everything on it isn’t worth spending an extra few pounds on, then what is?
7. Keep Setting Goals
I’m going to go into 2021 with six goals, one of which are kinda time-sensitive to January, and be limited to that. I want to keep adapting, changing and improving who I am, what I do and how I do them. Let’s be real, not even God knows what’s going to happen this year, so it’s pretty hard to plan things in advance.
So, my final goal is to keep setting more goals and finding more things I want to do or change about how I live.
Vague, subjective and unprovable. Nice.